We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever dream of a clean slate in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it's like from 3 families who actually made the leap.
Who hasn't imagined ditching city life and relocating to the country? Possibly you've invested weekend getaways turning through the regional realty listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the dive, moving from Seattle to a little summertime town in Maine. I started photographing these people and interviewing them about their accomplishments and obstacles in transitioning to nation living. The project took flight immediately-- plainly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me, however. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can learn more profiles like these on Urban copyright and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers found a wacky house in the Berkshires at a 3rd the cost of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what the majority of New York households would consider a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop apartment in a desirable Brooklyn area. It sufficed area for their family of 5, without any worry of a lease walking. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was just able to develop his own work in his off hours.

When Kenzie's parents transferred to the Berkshires, an imaginative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields family came for a go to and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. The couple wanted to provide their kids a youth immersed in nature and access to great public schools. "It seemed like an inspired idea," remembers Shawn. "But when I thought of all the unknowns and worries, realistically it was a bad idea because what we had in the city was truly fantastic." When they came across their storybook 1756 cottage while casually taking a look at realty listings, though, they felt that fate was pushing their hand. "On what I thought was a lark, we took a look at a home in a town with a terrific little school," says Shawn. "The mortgage on the home had to do with a third of our apartment's mortgage. That see sealed the offer."

Relocated to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their household to New Marlborough. "Living in a village in the country was a good response for us," says Kenzie. "We're actions from a post office, library, automobile mechanic and a general store. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is reassuring. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to suggest empty and huge."

Rather of continuing to strive to further the careers of other artists, the couple decided to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art organisation. Giving up their stable city earnings while handling the expenses of winter season heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cinch, but they can't imagine going back to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their house is like walking into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a typical day, their daughter, Honey, might welcome you in the backyard with a family pet rabbit, their kid Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other boy Odie may use to carry out a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their cottage into a relaxing, wacky wonderland.

The kids have far more liberty to check out now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their house and offering at the library down the street. And they have actually all observed, says Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you run out the frustrating scale of a city. When my mother passed away, individuals we didn't know well left whole meals on our deck."

They enjoy the natural setting of their new life, says Kenzie. That's simply the start. "Playing charades with our next-door neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences. Our pals down the roadway welcome people over to sing standard music every Sunday night, literally loafing the piano after supper."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the quiet he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What the majority of people don't know is that, recalling, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his brand-new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Before transferring to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to move to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little worried in the beginning, he was excited at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

And he now realizes that living in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I have actually always desired to move to the country," he states. Most of my household is from rural areas in Cuba, and I felt really at home there."

Moved to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this town would receive them, however they have been happily surprised. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were referred to for a while, with open arms. Richard is a reputable member of the community and-- considering that the inauguration-- a town celebrity.

"After that honeymoon stage, the very first thing that started to scold on me was having to drive everywhere," says Richard. He likewise misses out on the a fantastic read privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as just a waiter in St Louis. You know their entire life, and you understand their kids, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you.

"After a year of fighting the aspects, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After moving to the country, Richard initially continued to work from another location on agreement engineering tasks, but the cheaper expense of living in Maine permitted him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And given that 2013, he's been able to work almost entirely as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind.

He offers the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And possibly more notably, it has actually lastly provided him a place that seems like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service difficulty turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years back, Joe and Ashley Duggers ran and owned 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker area, a flower designer shop and a play area for toddlers, simply among others. All this in addition to raising four ladies under the age of six. They appreciated their hectic, full lives however worried that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their children a skewed point of view on the world.

This led them to a new prospective endeavor-- running an animals cattle ranch that might provide meat to their dining establishment. The home had 2 homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate requirement of repair and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and purchased the property in 2013, hoping to one day find a way to move to the cattle ranch complete time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We always had a desire to raise our kids in large open spaces in a more rural neighborhood," says Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land at some point. We offered our companies and moved up the day our earliest daughter completed kindergarten and have actually been all-in ever because."

After four years of hard work, the Duggers have developed a successful pasture-raised meat service. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they introduced 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

The Duggers do not have the conveniences, tidy clothes or complimentary time they had in their previous life, and have actually had to become more self-sufficient: "In the city, I could get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. Everything moves a little bit more slowly, however living on a ranch suggests you can build anything you can envision yourself, which is more satisfying than working with someone to do it."

Another reward is seeing their girls turn into brave, hardworking and independent free-range ladies. "My ladies' preferred motto is 'where there is a will, there's a way,' and all of us need to push difficult to make it all take place!" states Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a mixed drink, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front porch to watch their daughters run totally free in the backyard.

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